Making a new friend
Julie Carter
Cowboy life is as much about the stops made as the road traveled. The same applies for the cowgirl.
Her
cowboy had, all his life, been restless and ambitious. As a couple,
they had cowboyed in every corner of their home state of Texas.
Twenty-some-odd years into the partnership, they landed on a big ranch
they bought in New Mexico. It was their just rewards for the thousands
of long hours in the saddle during their formative years.
She had
made at least one very good friend at every stop on this Western road
of life. And each new place taught her that in every hundred miles
across the country, the customs and the cowboys changed.
She
learned, sometimes the hard way, that you can't out-native the natives.
She discovered that the best way for survival in a new place with new
folks was to find a seemingly responsible local and listen to his
stories.
Now she was a mighty far-piece from home, so was on the lookout for such a candidate.
She
learned that her nearest neighbor was quite familiar with their new
ranch. He had worked there as a button and been the foreman for a number
of years. When moving to their new ranch, she had noticed the
neighbor's ranch entrance sign with his name and brand on it.
As
she gradually got settled in and unpacked, she had planned to go meet
this new neighbor. However, it happened a little quicker than expected.
Her best friend, Heidi the cowdog, also a Texan, had discovered the
local porcupines in an up-close and most serious way.
The cowgirl
needed help for her Heidi and her head cowboy wasn't in the state. She
loaded Heidi in the pickup and headed to the neighbors.
Over needle-nose pliers and everybody that happened to be there helping to hold the dog, the acquaintance was made.
Like
all ranchers, they first had to establish a couple of things of common
ground. First, it isn't ever a good idea to look in the old cistern. You
never can predict what might be in there looking back at you. And
second, with the drought, the government and the cattle market, they
would all be lucky to still be alive by the end of the year.
Those requisites safely handled, the cowgirl and the neighbor got down to some regular neighborly visiting.
The new neighbor allowed that he knew their place pretty well from working there and would be happy to show her a few things.
They
went back to her outfit, saddled up, and rode to a picturesque canyon
where he related the history of the area and the fact there were
remnants of Indian artifacts and petroglyphs.
She studied the
ancient signs that translated to fending off witchcraft, the sign for
water, hunting, directions, water carrier, danger, snakes and many of
the other special graphics that the Indians had embellished on rocks
around their encampments.
Finally she got to one that looked
obviously newer than some of the ancient symbols carved in the stone.
This resembled a diamond bar diamond.
She thought about that a minute and it finally came to her what she was looking at.
She realized that this was her neighbor's ranch brand.
With
a grin that matched his when he saw the recognition in her eyes, she
knew things were going to be better now. Knowing cowboys and the ornery
nature that often qualifies a friendship, she knew she had a new friend.
No words were needed. It was carved in stone.
Issues of concern to people who live in the west: property rights, water rights, endangered species, livestock grazing, energy production, wilderness and western agriculture. Plus a few items on western history, western literature and the sport of rodeo... Frank DuBois served as the NM Secretary of Agriculture from 1988 to 2003. DuBois is a former legislative assistant to a U.S. Senator, a Deputy Assistant Secretary of Interior, and is the founder of the DuBois Rodeo Scholarship.
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