The Chair
God Bless Texas
Comin’ Home
By Stephen L. Wilmeth
The
continuing drama of the NFR was much more interesting than any of the news
coverage this week.
Each
performance was opened with a prayer of thanks and continued blessing followed
by the national anthem. During the seventh go-round version, the rodeo athletes
filed into the arena on foot rather than horseback. It was an opportunity of
direct comparison with other professional athletes.
The
difference was profound.
Whereas the
ball boys have made the national anthem a public display of discontent,
animosity, and contemptuous behavior, the rodeo athletes offered a reminder of
what the simple ceremony was intended to be. The men removed their hats and
placed their hands over their hearts. The ladies kept their heads covered and
placed their hands over their hearts. Not a single athlete selfishly called
attention to themselves to share the moment of spotlight to denigrate the flag or our
nation.
Not one soul kneeled.
The Chair
On the 18th
of March 1884, my great grandmother and her family left Lakey (sic), Edwards
County, Texas bound for New Mexico Territory. The process wasn’t spontaneous
nor was it easy or on a whim. There were many things that had to be worked out.
The first was to sell the house, farm implements, and (the) furniture.
In a
chronicle some 57 years later, she remembered their neighbors, friends, and
relatives gathered for days to tell (them) goodbye. The emotion had to be
extreme.
She
remembered her aunt told her, Goodbye, Madie, I don’t suppose I will ever see
you again. And she didn’t.
With only
one covered wagon, the collection of only the most essential was very modest. A
rub-board, brass kettle and tub (hung on the back of the wagon), a few vessels
to cook in on the open fire, tin cups and plates, knives and forks, wash pan
dish pan, one gallon jug and two buckets, two water kegs (attached to the side
of the wagon) two small cotton mattresses and quilts and pillows enough for two
beds, and one trunk with extra clothes was the extent of the family’s personal
effects. A tent large enough to make the two beds was loaded.
That’s all
they took save one mug and one toy for each of the four children and one old
chair. Her toy selection was a waxed doll. The chair was intended for double
duty. The springboard was removed from the front of the wagon and the chair
served as the seat from where her mother, Emily Jane, drove.
It was also
a reminder of home.
At night it
was taken down, placed by the fire, and when supper was finished each of the
children were taken, one by one, and briefly held and rocked by their mother.
My grandmother was then only four years old.
What a big,
frightening world that trip had to have been especially at night. There is
record of how little emotion the adults showed. It was important to keep a
stiff upper lip and display confidence.
We took
everything as a matter of course.
The worry
and the pressures were extreme. Water was a constant issue as was providing
food. Pa and Ma were always smiling, but
that was because they had to demonstrate courage and faith to not just the
folks with them, but, particularly, the children. If there was doubt and fear
they kept it to themselves, but there was one indicator of the immensity of the
task and it was observed by Madie and recorded all those years later.
In the
evening after the children had been put down, Ma would be sitting in that old
chair silently crying.
Comin’ Home
On
September 1, 1884, the family arrived on the bench above Mogollon Creek, New
Mexico Territory. The stock was allowed to graze as had been the pattern since
the journey had started all those months previously in Texas. The horses were
tied to trees for one simple reason.
There was
nothing else to tie them to. There was not a house, not a set of corrals, not
an outbuilding. There was nothing but that very place and the hope that it
represented became home and continues to be overseen as home and heritage
existence to the continuing family to this day, 136 years later.
That took
grit. That takes grit.
That is a
common thread that winds its way through the ranks of those professional
cowboys and cowgirls that have now concluded the 2020 version of the NFR. There
is a visceral bond that did not happen by chance. It is mosaic of time,
relationships, commitment to permanence, home, the land and the care of its
bounty, and an enduring faith and relationship with our Lord and Savior, Jesus
Christ.
In this
circumstance, Texas was the genesis.
God Bless
Texas
There are
many of us who have long thought that Texas holds the key to America’s future.
While so many of us exist in incomplete versions of the American Dream, Texas
had demonstrated the foundation of permanence.
At least in
the present form, its citizenry controls not just his or her lands, but some
degree of their own destiny. That is hugely important.
At stake
for much of the rest of us is not just the real risk of loss of original
freedoms, but the absence of citizenry affected and shaped by that same mosaic
of conditions. That is why this legal action taken by Texas in the aftermath of
this brutish election thuggery is so important.
Our
national elections cannot be stolen by world order criminals!
What is
coming must be the next phase of the American journey. Individuals guided by
their own sincere interests, may not be the preference of the elites, but they
are the glue that holds our dreams together.
God bless
them, and … God Bless Texas.
Stephen L.
Wilmeth is a rancher from southern New Mexico. “None of us can take a knee on
this one.”

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